Today's guest post was written by Colleen Langenfeld.
If you are battling with your kids over doing
homework, there is a simple tool that can really help. Printable
homework charts have made a difference in many homes and they can work
in your home, too.
This premise is amazingly straightforward.
Kids, like most adults, need structure. However, most kids do not
understand their need for structure and will not institute any on their
own. That's normal and where you, as a parent, can really shine.
Helping
your student get organized using homework charts is easy. Realize you
may have to make tweaks in your system over the first few weeks. Many
parents are frustrated with a new system that doesn't work perfectly
the first time. Don't fall for that! Making changes over time is called
progress and should be celebrated.
Start by sitting down with your child and going over his homework needs with him.
- How many classes or subjects does he have?
- What are the daily assignments that never change; such as daily reading or memorizing math facts.
- Are there days of the week he never has homework?
Use
this information to get a feel for your child's homework needs and then
head to your computer to get some printable homework charts. There are
a wide variety of charts available online; some simple and some quite
sophisticated. Take a look at your choices and print some charts out to
get started. You can always get different ones later on.
Fill out
the homework chart for the first week or month. Consider that this is a
new habit for your child and some motivation to stick with the program
will probably be needed. This is not so much about grades as about
becoming responsible for doing the homework with minimal prodding from
you.
Let the homework chart be the 'heavy' or authority on this
issue. Explain to your child about this new system designed to help
make her life easier (which it will absolutely do if she gets on board
with it). Tell her there will be frustrations at first, that's fine,
but grown-ups push through frustrations with a decent attitude.
Then
get started. Each day point to the homework chart and ask if she has
completed it for the day or how far she has gotten. Keep pointing out
the natural consequences for not keeping on top of homework and
establish your own family consequences for not keeping school a
priority.
If you begin this system when your children are young
and just starting out with their educational careers, you will find
that you don't have any difficulties nagging about homework as they
grow. If your kids are older and have already established
non-productive homework patterns, then your work will take longer, but
you can still get the job done. Let's face it. Adults complain loud and
strong when they have to make changes they don't like, so why should we
expect our half-grown children to be any different? That's human nature
and as parents, we can be patient and show our kids the great skill of
changing ourselves willingly and intentionally.
Use printable
homework charts in your home to develop strong self-discipline habits
and a healthy appreciation for education. Good homework habits are
worth their weight in gold over the lifetime of your family.
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