On Thursdays, I share my thoughts on Family Finances. Today's guest post was written by Jacqueline E. Ford, Financial Strategist
for JE Financial Services.
The more we work the more money we earn. The more
money we earn, the more things we buy. Which came first, the chicken or
the egg? The real question is which came first, the desire for
consumption or higher earnings? This is a real paradox. There is an
argument to support each as being first. But when you examine closely,
does it really matter which came first. More importantly what are you
going to do about the situation? What I'm really talking about here is
getting honest about our financial lifestyles. Individually, consumers
struggle in their own rights to stay ahead of potential financial
disasters. With the economy in the condition it is today, many are
taking special attention to national and global financial states. Is it
because now we believe that the world feels our personal struggle? Or,
are we now anxious that our perceived "cushion of comfort" has deflated?
Consumerism
has reached new heights, as we find reasons to validate the choices we
make. From a psychological viewpoint, one could say that our spending
habits are directly related to our desires to achieve certain social
status. We surround ourselves with successful people, hoping that in
some way the success will "rub off" on us. In the meantime, we spend
our time and energy trying to emulate what we think is success! In the
short and long run, this leads to more consumption; more meals at
restaurants, buying gifts, attending special functions to network, etc.
Yes, I know, it takes money to make money, but at what point do we do
some serious soul searching about whom we are and what our life's
purpose is? Does it really involve acquiring the best of the best
through consumerism? How important is that Lexus, or the Fendi suit, or
even the Dolce & Gabbana bag?
Keeping up with the Jones' has
turned the American dream into an American nightmare. Our spending
habits have become our alter-egos. We have convinced ourselves that
more is better. Look at how major companies have warehoused everything
from purchasing cars, to grocery shopping, to outsourcing skilled labor
from other countries. At some point the bubble will burst, just like
the "dot com" bubble burst in the late 1990's. Looking at our economy
today, that bubble has burst again. Why is it that during times of
prosperity we forget that what goes up eventually does not stay there?
We ride the wave of artificial enthusiasm for as long as it will carry
us. Not giving any forethought into being prepared for the cycles that
the economy experiences and its impact on our lifestyle. We're like
kids in a candy store, eating all the candy we can right now, not
thinking of the tooth ache that comes later.
Our perception of
needs versus wants is much skewed. We are in complete denial about our
spending habits and how they are directly related to the social
statements we make. Even on a national scale, we can compare the
spending habits of major corporations to our own households. For
example, the mortgage crisis. Mortgage brokers were mesmerized by their
own wheeling and dealing in unique products and the profits to be
realized from selling them. In turn, the consumer, who purchased these
mortgages, thought they could increase their social status by buying
more house at cheaper interest rates. The end result, everyone is
suffering. The mortgage industry has gone practically bankrupt as
consumers are facing an all time high in foreclosures. Each side was
looking only at the here and now, and forgot to prepare for the
inevitable cycle.
What can we do to stop the madness?
1. Do
some serious soul searching about your true purpose in life. Does it
really include all the things that you've acquired?
2. Always have a plan, or need I say a cushion of your own. Pay yourself first.
3. Be in control of your spending habits instead of them controlling you. Impulse purchases are not an option, ever!
4. Always live below your means! Remember the Jones' are an illusion
5.
Find creative ways to save money that can include the family, such as
starting your own garden, cooking more fresh meals at home together, or
having game/movie night vs. going out.
6. Make sure your home, if you have one, is weather sealed to save energy.
7. Re-cycle. It's a must for our environment. Our future generations need an earth that will continue to sustain them.
8. Join forces with an associate and barter your talents and services.
9.
Stop riding on the emotional momentum of the media. It's like having
someone else living your life for you. Make sound financial decisions
and stick with them no matter what is happening in the world.
10. Stay healthy mentally and physically. We perform best when our bodies and minds are in sync.
It's
all a case of mind over matter. Take control of your life and your
finances. Stop playing the victim role every time an economic downturn
happens. Stand strong because we all have "Common Cents".
Jacqueline
Ford is Chief Financial Strategist of JE Financial Services . JEFS
provides Quick Books training & support, Bookkeeping training &
services, Payroll and Tax services and Business consulting. Visit her website at http://www.bookkeepingsuccess.com to download a free copy of "Selecting the right Bookkeeper for your Business". Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Jacqueline_Ford
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